If I've learned anything in the short two years since I've become a mother, it's that I thrive when I take care of myself. The past 6 months have been HARD and I can tell you that I struggled the most when I wasn't doing that. I've been called selfish and I've been told that I don't put my husband/children/family/home first. But you know what? I function much better as a wife, mom, daughter, sister, friend, etc. when I am happy and healthy. I have never, EVER neglected my children or family in order to care for myself but by neglecting myself I can't properly care for my family. Do the things you need to do to be the best version of yourself. Eat well. Move your body. Rest. Go outside. Unplug. Listen to music. Ignore your to-do list for a day. Call a friend. Volunteer. Read a book. Take a nap. It doesn't matter what it is, as long as it makes you feel like a better you.
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